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A day in the Life of Dennis Jones

17 May

7am : I wake up in the morning pondering issues that society struggles with, the lines that devide us, and what makes me whole as an individual. I reflect on this for an hour at this time i eat or prepare a meal to eat or do chores.

8am : I sit in lotus position to further acknowledge the things i can’t change about the world and to change those things i must model them to inspire others to be the best them.

9am  : I shower and groom when needed while listening to jazz or classical in the morning. This hour I get ready for work…

10am : If i have time from the inspiring and relaxing meditative experience of showering to jazz music. I will play classical and jazz piano before work to let out some of my creative energy.

11am : I head to work. On the way to work I look out for the beauties in nature which is everything. I get an overall feeling of awe at this moment of my day

12pm : I get to work I say hello to all of my co workers and ki-ki with them about issues relevant to our lives and get lunch.

1pm : I have a Meeting

2pm : I go into drop in at lyric to socialize with my peers in the community to see there needs from groups and to talk about issues relevant to them.

3pm : The same as 2pm

4pm-7pm: This is training where all the queer educators get together and learn and discuss issues in the community and world. We also get trained on relevant skills that can transcend and be used in everyday life.

7pm : I take a deep breath and start reflecting on the day. Maybe get something to eat.

8pm : Arrive at home the first thing that I do is wash my hands. Than I shower and change into my pajamas at this time

9pm :I watch youtube videos and look at social media till i get tired and go to bed

Thats a day in my life…


Its important for a man to know how to cook.

25 Feb

I cant not stress that enough. here are 10 reasons why…

1.Its romantic to cook for your special someone. It can set the night for passion and cuddling.

2. A man should be able to maintain himself. Alot of the time growing up in this heterostructured world your expected to do such to be able to. Your taught early to go get what you want and be adamant about it. How cooking fits in it well you must eat and drink TO LIVE.

3.Its incredibly joyful and can be your quiet time/relax time. The smell of food is so soothing!

4.Cooking with your special someone(s) is also an amazing time. building something together and enjoying it…. Sounds like something else…. Its also good to bond with people in general

5.If your in lost/stranded in a forest you should atleast know how to build a fire and snack on near by dear.

6.”I can cook” Is the ultimate pick up line. Add from scratch in there someone will get you a long way

7 .It shows intelligence if you can create complex dishes.

8.You will just be awesome!


10. A man should be able to do a lot on the stove.

Wow that was funny there some good facts going through along with suggestiveness and sarcasm. I feel it important for a man to know his way around the kitchen for fact no matter at what level. doesn’t make you less if you less if you can’t but it is like have resume writing skills.

Community and Such.

3 Feb

Hey all you fabulous queermos and allies!!

So this weeks topic is about what kind of community im a part of. well lemme tell you I get around. with communities that is. lol. lets see *thinking*

*Queer Girl Community

*I strongly dislike Twilight community

* Geek/Nerd Community

*Butch Queen

*The I love Spartacus Blood and Sand community

*Awkward/cool(?) brown(ish) people with awesome hair(or lack their of) community

um, that’s all I can think up right now, but I’ll choose the…..last one to talk about. cause that one seems like people are gonna be like what the hell is she talking about, So i will delve into the subject. Wahahahahahaha.

alright, so I come from a mixed background and so a lot of time I don’t fit in with a lot of my fellow brown folks. I won’t even begin to tell the times I’ve be given black stares or the awkward silences that have come out of my encounters with people from my own community. Some of those stories are quite hilarious and one day will be shared in a tell all book that you, the reader will be able to purchase for an undisclosed amount of coinage at some point.

but back to the point of belonging and what not.

so when I finally did find some queer brown peoples who loved similar things I did and totally did not get the blank stare of WTF, it made me so happy and felt like I had found my niche, my queermos.

so the point im coming to after a rambling of several sentences with no obvious point, is that it may suck now, with being a loner and getting lots of awkward looks and feeling left out of most conversations because  believe it or not you like things that may differ from the world of Jonas brothers or and Skins. but if you like those things that’s ok too, just be yourself, and if people give you shit about it, there lame, cause your most likely awesome, especially if your reading this blog. LOL

so im pretty much done, leave comment and lemme know wasssap!!!